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Friday, August 3, 2012

Hippie

I recently posted a picture and quote on facebook and two special men in my life replied:
1st   reply- “Such a little hippie at heart!”
2nd   reply- “Aint that the damn truth… Christina hippie McManamy twinkle feet Sylvester. lol

My reply to them was “ you boyz know me so well.” 

I’m sure in my life I had been referred to as worse things than a “hippie”!  Yes, I have always realized that I have a hippie spirit. I consider it a positive thing and a compliment. I truly believe that we are always trying to maintain a harmonious balance of all of the “things” that are encompassed in our life’s journey.  To compose our inner peace is a daily task that will create a more authentic & peaceful life. Awareness of ourselves and the beauty that surrounds us is enlightening. 


It seems that this week I have read more turmoil on the social networks & the news about matters that so many people will never agree on. Whether it is about religious beliefs, scriptural interpretation, moral standards, political opinions, race, who a person should love or if we should patronize certain businesses, it has been a week of a lot of “freedom of speech” going on!  I must admit that it upsets me greatly that in all of our diversities that we as human beings cannot find a way to agree to disagree! I firmly believe in the quote by Voltaire that says, “I may not agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.”


Yes, everyone has an opinion and everyone has the right to express that opinion, but can we not find a less mean spirited way to express that then to verbally & physically attack those that have different opinions and beliefs than our own? If you have such a strong belief in a cause, then find a productive and peaceful way to support that cause that does not involve utter bashing of another human being that has a different point of view.  Isn’t this the “stuff” that wars are built on? Is the world not filled with enough hurt & unrest? Are there not better things to deal with than trying to convince someone that their free-willed opinion is wrong? 


All people form their views from many different areas and a lot of it depends on the value systems they hold dear, the environment they live and the circumstances that they are in at the time. Upbringing can help form ones views and many others form views from what the media feeds them. We tend to think the right solution to (fill in the blank with the issue) is whatever will help us prosper individually & gives us a sense of empowerment. Truth is, you can’t please everyone and not every solution helps everyone. What is good for one can be detrimental to another.  


What I am trying to say is that there will always be conflict. However, what I am also saying is that we are all unique human beings and the two things missing from all of this turmoil are RESPECT & LOVE. Can’t we all just RESPECT each other and learn to share some LOVE with our fellow human beings? If we spent more time focusing on respecting & loving, I KNOW that there would be GREAT changes in this world.  


As I watched the Olympic opening ceremonies and the games this past week, the most beautiful of all was seeing ALL of the nation’s march in behind the flag in which they represent. The athletes standing together, in PEACE, with the shared goal of giving their best to the sport in which they had trained years to master. Even though they are there to compete against each other they have a common respect for the hard work that took place in order to get them to this very place. What an amazing sight!  


I suppose my Hippie spirit hopes that people will come to realize that there is much more reward in respecting and loving then fighting and hating. As us Hippie’s say, “Give Peace a Chance!” 


Just Sayin’,
Christina